SF House Rules + Guidelines

These rules and guidelines have been carefully crafted and curated by the diverse SF House community. They have been refined many times with aim of maximizing overall happiness, facilitating meaningful connection, and ensuring everyone’s comfort. They are centered around three core principles: 1. Respect, 2. Compassion, 3. Loving life. 

The bottom line: Say hi. Be cool. Help keep the vibe good.

House Rules

These rules are non-negotiable—breaking any usually results in immediate membership revocation.

  1. No Smoking or Candles: Smoking, vaping, or open flames not related to cooking (including candles) are strictly prohibited anywhere on the premises or within 15 feet of the property.

  2. Adhere to guest limitations: One overnight guest allowed per night. Max 3 consecutive nights and 8 nights total per month. Max 4 daytime guests at once—you must accompany them. Never share access credentials.

  3. Observe quiet hours (applies to everywhere on the property): Sunday through Friday: 9 PM–8 AM. Friday through Sunday: 11 PM–9 AM. No loud music, TV, or disruptive socializing. Sound should not carry beyond your room.

  4. Do not leave personal items in shared spaces. Use designated storage only. No shoes, racks, or bags left in hallways.

  5. Respect others’ privacy and space: Never enter another member’s room without explicit permission. Don’t be space hog or encroach upon others’ space.

  6. Clean up after yourself in all shared spaces immediately. Wipe down surfaces, place dishes in dishwasher, remove laundry promptly, return moved items.

  7. Keep the place secure and safe: Never prop open exterior doors. Don’t allow unknown individuals inside—when in doubt, leave them out. Lost cards will be deactivated and replaced. Do not bring hazardous items (e.g., weapons, explosives, flammables).

  8. No cooking in rooms: Cooking is not permitted inside private rooms, including but not limited to the use of microwaves, air friers, or other applicances.

  9. No pets: Pets are not permitted unless legally required (e.g., service animals).

  10. No illegal or disrespectful activity: Illegal drug use, harassment or threatening behavior of any kind, unwarranted sexual advances, stealing, nudity in areas outside of your room, and anything not mentioned here that causes others to be fearful or disgusted will result in prompt membership revocation and removal from the community.

House Guidelines

These guidelines reflect shared expectations that help the community thrive.

  1. Treat Others Well: Follow the Golden Rule—treat others as you'd like to be treated.

  2. Be Social & Respectful: Introduce yourself, acknowledge others, use headphones, keep voices low, close doors quietly.

  3. Shared Space Courtesy: Don’t dominate shared areas; reset them after use. Label your food. Avoid peak hour backups.

  4. Responsible Hosting: Guests reflect on you. Notify housemates if inviting more than 3 people.

  5. Conflict Resolution: Address problems calmly and directly. Involve management if needed.

  6. Sustainability: Sort recycling correctly, conserve energy, and report leaks promptly.

  7. Laundry & Kitchen Etiquette: Remove laundry promptly, clean lint traps, clean up after kitchen use.

  8. Digital Etiquette: Engage respectfully on shared platforms. Respond promptly to house-related messages.

  9. Safety Awareness: Know emergency exits and fire extinguisher locations. Report security concerns quickly.